A New Year’s Goal with Eternal Value

This new year, ditch those superficial recycled goals that contain words like “diet,” fitness,” “budget,” “travel,” and “project.” Instead, commit to something in 2024 that will be of great personal benefit to you forever. Determine to develop a closer relationship with the Lord that will go with you into eternity. Establish a daily devotional time to meet with Him one-on-one that includes Bible reading, scripture memory, and making a few notes in a personal journal. For specific suggestions involving a free easy-to-use guide, continue reading.

The Bible is clear that God wants to have an intimate relationship with us. He created you and desires to draw close to you. James 4:8 says, “Come near to God, and He will come near to you.” Jeremiah 33:3 says, “Call on Me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.” It is futile to try to live our lives under our own power without investing at least a few minutes each day with Him.

Yet, you may find it difficult to reserve that crucial time with the Lord every day consistently. It will never happen by just catching those moments whenever you can. The only way to satisfy that need to be in His presence is to have a system that is a habitual part of your routine. My church, Crossgate Church, has developed a Bible Engagement Guide which is a two-year plan for reading just one chapter of the Bible a day, making a few notes in a personal journal, and praying. You will read and meditate on the Bible’s chapters that are most applicable to your life. The Guide encourages you to memorize one Bible verse each week. This guide is not just for Crossgate Church. It is for everyone who wants to establish a consistent pattern of coming near to God and gaining access to His endless power and wisdom. It is the best daily devotional plan I have ever used.

If you don’t have a structured method of daily personal quiet time with God, I urge you to download and save or print the Crossgate Bible Engagement Guide by clicking this link: www.crossgate.org/resources. Then scroll to the Crossgate Bible Engagement Guide. It is free, there is nothing to join, you will not be contacted, and your information will not be shared with anyone or any organization. It is just a simple way to start your new year off in a way that has changed many lives for the better. It can do the same for you.

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The American Epidemic of Absent Fathers

Over 19 million children in America live without a father in the home–about one in four children. This explosive phenomenon of single mother homes has quadrupled since 1950. This dramatic demographic trend has had a destructive impact on our society in general and has been particularly devastating on our nation’s children. Let’s look at a few disturbing facts about fatherless homes that are unraveling the fabric of our culture.

Even before birth, children whose fathers abandon their mothers are four times more likely to die in the womb due to stresses on the mother. Once born, these children are four times more likely to grow up in poverty. Forty-seven percent of children without involved fathers live in households below the poverty level. That is four times the number of father-and-mother households in poverty.

Children of single mothers are nine times more likely to drop out of school, and they account for 71% of all dropouts. These children represent 90% of all homeless and runaway minors. They have four times the risk of obesity.

Children without fathers present have an alarming propensity to become delinquents. Of all children exhibiting behavioral problems, 85% have no paternal influence. They are twice as likely to commit suicide. They are three times more likely to carry guns and deal drugs. Eighty-five percent of all youth in prison are from fatherless homes.

Teens without dads have a significantly greater likehood of being sexually active and are seven times more likely to become pregnant during their teen years. Children raised solely by their mothers are more prone to gender dysphoria.

The old adage, “Correlation does not imply causation” does not apply to father absence. The troubling statistics presented above are directly attributable to the lack of father involvement in children’s lives. Fathers committed to their children and their children’s mothers virtually free their family from those statistics. The most egregious cases of father abandonment begin at pregnancy. However, abandonment caused by divorce or separation after children are born causes other problems like those children’s depression, social dysfunction, anxiety, anger, and lack of discipline.

Mothers are extremely important to the raising of children, but they can never fully fill the void of fathers. Parenting is divinely designed to be a team effort of both a feminine and masculine influence on the lives of children for their optimal development. America will not return to the great nation it once was unless all its fathers honor their God-given, sacred role and responsibility to be present, to provide, to protect, to prepare, to promote, and to praise their children in this increasingly hostile world.

It is past time for the critical need of committed fathers to be emphasized in churches, schools, politics, media, and health care. If we can fix fatherhood in America, we will fix a multitude of other social ills.

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